See if he loves your six mental moves
Because of the growth environment, the way of thinking and the secretion of hormones, there are indeed a lot of love psychology between boys and girls. The small movements in love have actually shown the love psychology of boys.
1 Boys do n’t love, just understand; girls do n’t understand, just love.
Find a guy who loves you 100% and you love him 50%.
The 50% of energy saved can be used to understand you and your 100% boys.
To put it plainly, boys are used to understand, not to love.
You know how to give him face when he is masculine; when you are weak, you pull his hand.
I do n’t want to take the time to understand him, I just want to love him 100%, and see the end of the girls in the film and television drama. Xu Jinglei loves dialects in the movie “I love you”, and loves dialects almost jumped off the building, and she was crazy; Korean drama “LadiesIn the “Diary”, the heroine loves 100% and follows her boyfriend. In the end, the boyfriend still used Miller’s “jailbreak” spirit and ran away with others.
Boys are used to understand, not to love. Too much love will lead to selflessness. He will always be at the center of his life, and he will gain or lose. It is better to love less. Keep a little distance, so that the boy said to himself helplessly and compassionately:”Love, I don’t understand you!
“That’s right, you don’t need to understand me, you just need to love me.
And I don’t need to love you, I just need to understand you so that we can live in harmony and get what we need.
2 The function of this product for boys is to solve problems, not to listen.
You told him about the troubles he encountered today, and he corrected it at the beginning, telling you a solution, and you kept talking, he looked more and more serious, so you are very angry, why did you find such a thingCaring about your boyfriend?
In fact, you are wrong. Boys and girls have fundamentally different ways of thinking. When encountering problems and pressures, boys pay attention to solutions and girls pay attention to talking to others. He proposes a solution, which is his way of expressing love.
The task is completed, you continue to talk, he will feel that you are not satisfied with the plan he proposed, he did not help you, he began to doubt his ability, so began to be irritable, but you think he does not care about you, so you start quarreling.
When you encounter a problem, ask a boy what to do, you need to listen to find a girl.
It’s like a vacuum cleaner. You can’t use it to fish. It’s your problem to misuse the product.
3 If he doesn’t seem to love you, he really doesn’t love you.
The biggest reason a boy bullies you is because he doesn’t like you at all.
He doesn’t look too warm because he doesn’t love you.
On the first date for dinner, he proposed the AA system; he said that he would contact again instead of I will call you tonight; he said that I would ask you later but did not specify the specific date; he said that he did not want to findGirlfriend, in fact, means that you are not the girlfriend he wants to find; he said that he is very busy and does not even have time to drink a glass of juice. In fact, it means that you are not worth the time he has to draw a glass of juice.
You didn’t call him for a lot of reasons, suspecting that his phone was lost or broken, suspecting that he had traveled to a cave where there was no signal, but he actually lied to himself.
In short, he doesn’t like you that much.
4 Don’t blame him for taking every game seriously.
Boys always put themselves in a competitive environment. The typical one is to drive, and to walk their way honestly on the road. Girls who never run the red light must be boys when they have a chance.
Girls drive to put themselves safely to their destination, and boys drive to leave the cars that set off with them behind.
The same goes for playing computer games.
As a result of a psychologist survey, the order of five requirements for boys and girls is: 1.
Appearance diaphragm; 3.
Feeling of being worshiped; 4.
Can play together; 5.
It will help your career.
If he likes a game, you have no responsibility to blame him for spending too much, but instead try to express his interest, and he will separate you into something that can be played together, and will multiply you.
No.5 boys who love you play silence in front of you, boys who don’t love you don’t even give you silence.
The girl thinks that if he loves himself, he should express and passion in minutes. When he can’t figure it out, how can he keep quiet and play silence.
There are two reasons why boys are silent when they are in love: 1.
They are born to be like this. When they are with you, they occasionally walk away and miss the loneliness and calmness when they are not in love. He feels that the continuous close relationship with you allows him to find himself, so he wants to be alone for a while.
He is in trouble and needs to be resolved. This is when he licks the wound and accumulates strength to deal with the problem. When he finds a solution, he will come out by himself.
Don’t bother him at this time, and don’t bother you if you don’t talk to me if you don’t love me, and find something you like to do.
Usually 20 minutes to 1 hour, he began to miss your sweetness around him, and took the initiative.
The boys don’t love you, they will run away, and they will not even give you the chance to be silent.
6 Never find a boy to negotiate, not two people in love, you can understand.
If you want to know how two people in love talk about collapsing, just watch the movie “Gone with the Wind”.
Looking at the dispute between Hao Scarlett and Bai Ruide, it is clear that boys will never be negotiated. Men and women use different planetary languages, especially when two people are holding their breath, they cannot understand at all.
You just said something today I’m particularly sad today. Does he blame me for a sentence?
Don’t blame who you blame?
Well . noisy.
American psychologists say that boys and girls have six basic love needs, and the forms of love that boys need include trust, acceptance, gratitude, praise, recognition, and encouragement; the forms that girls need are caring, understanding, respect, and loyalty, Considerate, comfort.
When there is disagreement, it is more effective to lean on his chest than to say anything.
When he calms down, he will naturally understand your heart and take the initiative to adjust and your pace.
This is the man.
If he wants you, you can do whatever you want him to do.
If he doesn’t want you, you will find you redundant if you die for him.